CATHOLIC TEACHINGS
YOUR SORROW
WILL BE TURNED TO JOY
Purgatory:
fulfillment of God's justice or fruit of His Mercy?
Upon
meeting the wife of a deceased parishioner shortly before the
anniversary of his death, the pastor asked whether she intended to have
the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass offered for him.
The lady responded: "If
he's in heaven, he doesn't need it.
If he's in hell, it won't do him any good.
If he's in purgatory, I know he'll be able to endure it."
This
humorous little anecdote actually brings some serious questions to mind
and reflects some of the confusion that has crept into our understanding
of Church teaching about life and death- and especially purgatory.
What
is purgatory? Is it a
punishment because we've been "pretty good, but not good
enough?" Or is there
something more to it? And
what about our loved ones who have died?
Is there really any value to our praying for them or having Holy
Masses offered for them?
The
Holy Word of God- Sacred Scripture- reveals to us the awesome truth that
we human beings have been created to become members of the family God
wants for Himself. God
wants us to be His family, to be His children and share the fullness of
His joy.
But
in order to be able to be truly "children of God" we must
become pure like Him, holy like Him, loving like Him, with an unselfish,
undivided heart.
As
the prophet David puts it, "Who has the right to climb the mountain
of the Lord? Who has the
right to stand in his holy place? He
whose hands are clean, whose heart is pure, whose soul does not pay
homage to worthless things..."
(Ps 24:3-4)
But,
at the moment of our departure from earthly life, how many of us have
become divinely pure, united in every way with God, yearning to love Him
only, and devoted to Him above all?
How
many of us have lived in such harmony with His grace that we are ready
to be immediately received into the intimate embrace of the all-holy God
and share in His Divinity?
What
a genuine comfort it is, then, to be assured by the Church that our
loving Father, in his incomprehensible mercy, has provided us with the
answer to our every need, especially our ultimate one:
when we pass from this life to eternity.
Catholics
generally tend to view purgatory through the "eye glasses" of
justice, which they interpret in its negative sense as punishment for
wrongdoing. But the
positive aspect of justice according to God's holy word, is that God is
faithful to His promises.
More
than anything else, we must see purgatory not as the ante-chamber of
hell (suggesting a similar type of suffering), but as the entrance hall
of heaven, where God is All-in-all, where He reigns completely, is fully
acknowledged as the Source and Goal of all creation, and is known as
Love, to the degree that each particular person is gifted to be able to
know Him.
To
know someone, in the language of the Bible, means to enter into intimate
contact with that person, human or divine.
Though
it is possible for us to enter into an intimate relationship with God
even while in this world, our "knowing" of Him is incomplete
and unclear, for our inordinate self-love holds back certain areas of
our being from God's complete rule.
To
whatever extent we become conscious, during our earthly lives, of our
inability to rid ourselves completely of whatever blocks us from
intimate union with God, we feel pain.
We experience a taste of "purgatory", recognizing how
perfectly God loves us and how imperfectly we love Him in return.
In
purgatory this pain is heightened, lifted, in a sense, to infinity by
the Divine Light that reveals to us at once the infinity and purity of
Love, and the full extent of our inordinate self-love.
We
are filled with a longing for God, whom we now, more than ever before,
realize is the only One who can bring us to the fullness of joy.
And we suffer the unimaginable pain of separation from the object
of our longing, knowing that it is a separation caused by our own
self-centeredness.
But,
though this is a very real and intense form of suffering, it yet carries
with it a character of "sweetness and hope," which we can call
purgatorial joy!
This
joy of souls in purgatory is the result of their having trustingly
handed themselves over to God and accepted the purification that arises
from their love and longing as their misery truly meets His mercy.
Purgatory
is our meeting with Christ, who loves us, and our loving acceptance of
His pardoning love. It is
our passage to holiness. It
is not yet heaven, but it is a definite way to it, since the love of God
underlies the purifying suffering souls.
The
souls in purgatory already definitely belong to God, and nothing can
separate them from Him. In
this new state Satan can have absolutely no influence upon them. Their
love for God keeps maturing, not only in atoning suffering and longing,
but in peace and silence as well.
By
God's mercy, our sacrifices and spiritual efforts, united to Christ's
own sacrifice of love for us and applied on behalf of the departed, lend
themselves to the "maturing process" of those souls.
By receiving the effects of our love, they themselves grow in it,
becoming cleansed in its fire of those things that held them unfit for
immediate union with God when they crossed the eternal frontier by
death.
Our
loving deeds, words and prayers, offered for the Holy Souls, are capable
of reducing their pain or even of removing it altogether as they
progress in nearness to God. That
is why the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is the greatest help we can give
Holy Souls. For the
Eucharist is the Sacrifice of Calvary- the greatest act of selfless
love- made present here and now. By
participation in it, we are empowered to apply it to the departed souls
who can no longer help themselves.
For,
in all truth, our every act of true love, whatever it may be, is such
only because of its union with Christ's supreme act of love on our
behalf, which He thus made our own, enabling us to keep offering it up
through the Holy Spirit with Him to His Father's glory.
The
Saints have understood this well throughout the history of the Church.
There seems to be not a single chosen soul upon whom the Lord has
not impressed His desire that every possible spiritual help be given to
souls of the departed.
This
is true of the newly beatified Faustina Kowalska as it was of the
Venerable Founder of the Marians of the Immaculate Conception, Fr.
Stanislaus of Jesus-Mary Papczynski, who placed assistance to souls in
purgatory second among the three aims of his order.
His conviction was:
"To beg God
earnestly for the release of Souls who find themselves in expiatory
flames or to come to their help by pious alms as well as by various
other means, is to exercise the highest charity."
Together
let us exercise this act of mercy so dear to God, so that all the
departed, who for whatever reason were not ready for immediate union
with Him, may by our prayerful love through Communion of Saints, more
quickly enter the full joy of the Blessed.
Blessed
be God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who in his great mercy has
given us a new birth as his sons, by raising Jesus Christ from the dead,
so that we have sure hope and the promise of an inheritance that can
never be spoilt or soiled or fade away, because it is being kept for you
in the heavens. Through
your faith, God's power will guard you until the salvation which has
been prepared is revealed at the end of time.
This is a cause of great joy for you, even though you may for a
short time have to bear being plagued by all sorts of trials; so that,
when Jesus Christ is revealed, your faith will have been tested and
proved like gold- only it is more precious that gold, which is
corruptible even though it bears testing by fire- and, then you will
have praise and glory and honor.
You
did not see him, yet you love him; and still without seeing him you are
already filled with a joy so glorious that it cannot be described,
because you believe; you are sure of the end to which your faith looks
forward, that is the salvation of your souls. (1 Pt. 1:3-9)